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The root of loneliness isn’t the absence of other people but an inner absence—you don’t have a centered awareness of your true self. Your true self is your spirit, which is infinite and eternal. Its qualities include love, compassion, joy, creativity, intuition, and bliss.

According to John 14:15-31, during Jesus’ Farewell Discourse, He instructs His disciples, and He shares how the Holy Spirit has been made known in the past, present, and future. As we learn how this impacts our lives today, may our hearts be a home for the Holy Spirit to dwell in as we obey His commands, flee from sin, and share the hope of Jesus with others. The Holy Spirit serves as our counselor who speaks the truth to us. The Spirit never forces us to act, but guides us in the way of truth.

Cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you, according to 1 Peter 5:7. Fear not, for I am with you. Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, help you, and uphold you with my righteous right hand (Isaiah 41:10).

Jealousy is a strong feeling of possessiveness that can be positive or negative. It can be a sin that can lead to chaos and bitterness. “A peaceful mind gives life to the body, but jealousy rots the bones.” The root cause of jealousy is connected to a person’s inability to see what God has provided in their life and a lack of thankfulness.

James 3:13-18, emphasizes the distinction between worldly “wisdom” driven by envy and selfish ambition, and true wisdom coming from God, which manifests as peaceable, gentle, and merciful behaviour, essentially stating that a person’s true wisdom is demonstrated through their actions and character, not just their words; the “wisdom from above” is pure, peaceable, and leads to good works, while the earthly wisdom leads to chaos and conflict.

Proverbs 23:17 tells us that we should not envy others, but instead fear the Lord. When we envy others, we are focused on what they have and what we don’t have. This can lead to discontentment and unhappiness. However, when we fear the Lord, we are focused on Him and His promises.

We should have a commitment to serve God with gladness. Get rid of the jealousy by acknowledging the sin, confessing it to God, ask for forgiveness, and then lay it at his feet.

Rejection can be a painful experience, but it can also be a redirection from God. God uses rejection to get people’s attention so that they can hear his voice.

Turn to God and ask for help. Remember that Jesus endured rejection and still loved people.

In Matthew 9:9-13, we see Jesus’s concern towards people who feel rejected or lost. After healing a crippled man, while Jesus was leaving, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the place for collecting taxes. Jesus said to him, “Follow me.” So he got up and followed Jesus. Jesus ate dinner at Matthew’s house. Many tax collectors and others with bad reputations came and ate with him and his followers. The Pharisees saw that Jesus was eating with these people. They asked his followers, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and other sinners?” Jesus heard them say this. So he said to them, “It is the sick people who need a doctor not those who are healthy. You need to go and learn what this Scripture means: ‘I don’t want animal sacrifices; I want you to show kindness to people.’ I did not come to invite good people. I came to invite sinners.”

Psalm 38 illustrates the comprehensive, life-endangering suffering of a psalmist. Overwhelmed by God’s wrath, his illness, and guilt, the aloofness of close relatives, and life-endangering enemies, the penitent ends with a plea for God’s immediate help and a declaration of his sole hope in the Lord.

Ephesians 1:6 reminds you that God sees, chooses, and holds you close, even when others forsake you, as Jesus himself experienced rejection.

Feeling useless or inferior is a heavy burden, but it is a subjective, internal feeling—not an objective fact.

You can overcome feelings of worthlessness by rejecting lies, focusing on God’s truth, and recognising that your worth is based on His love, not human performance or comparison.

According to Ephesians 2:10, you are not useless or inferior; you are a “masterpiece” created in God’s image with a unique purpose and divine value.

God calls Jeremiah in Jeremiah 1:4-10,
The Lord’s message came to me: “Before I made you in your mother’s womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I chose you for a special work. I chose you to be a prophet* to the nations.” Then I said, “But, Lord God, I don’t know how to speak. I am only a boy.” But the Lord said to me, “Don’t say, ‘I am only a boy.’ You must go everywhere I send you and say everything I tell you to say. Don’t be afraid of anyone. I am with you, and I will protect you.” This message is from the Lord. Then the Lord reached out with his hand and touched my mouth. He said to me, “Jeremiah, I am putting my words in your mouth. Today I have put you in charge of nations and kingdoms. You will pull up and tear down.”

Galatians 1:11-24, Paul says, “Brothers and sisters, I want you to know that the Good News* message I told you was not made up by anyone. I did not get my message from any other human. The Good News is not something I learned from other people. Jesus Christ himself gave it to me. He showed me the Good News that I should tell people. You have heard about my past life in the Jewish religion. I persecuted* the church* of God very much. I tried to destroy his people. I was becoming a leader in the Jewish religion. I did better than most other Jews of my own age. I tried harder than anyone else to follow the traditions we got from our ancestors.* But God had special plans for me even before I was born. So he chose me through his grace.* He wanted me to tell the Good News about his Son to the non-Jewish people. So God let me see and learn about his Son. When this happened, I did not get advice or help from anyone. I did not go to Jerusalem to see those who were apostles* before I was. But, without waiting, I went away to Arabia. Later, I went back to the city of Damascus. Three years later, I went to Jerusalem to meet Peter.* I stayed with him for 15 days. I met no other apostles—only James, the brother of the Lord. God knows there is nothing untrue in any of this. Later, I went to the areas of Syria and Cilicia. The groups of believers in Judea who belong to Christ had never met me before. They had only heard this about me: ‘This man was persecuting us. But now he is telling people about the same faith that he once tried to destroy.’ These believers praised God because of me. God has saved us through the work of Christ, and we should look forward to eternity with him.”

1 Peter 2:4-10 tells us:
The Lord Jesus is the living stone. The people of the world decided that they did not want this stone. But he is the one God chose as one of great value. So come to him. You also are like living stones, and God is using you to build a spiritual house. You are to serve God in this house as holy priests, offering him spiritual sacrifices that he will accept because of Jesus Christ. The Scriptures say, “Look, I have chosen a cornerstone of great value, and I put that stone in Zion. Anyone who trusts in him will never be disappointed.” (Isaiah 28:16). So, that stone means honour for you who believe. But for those who don’t believe, he is “the stone that the builders refused to accept, which became the most important stone.” (Psalm 118:22). For them, he is also “a stone that makes people stumble, a rock that makes people fall.” (Isaiah 8:14). People stumble because they don’t obey what God says. This is what God planned to happen to those people. But you are his chosen people, the King’s priests. You are a holy nation, a people who belong to God. He chose you to tell about the wonderful things he has done. He brought you out of the darkness of sin into his wonderful light. In the past, you were not a special people, but now you are God’s people. Once you had not received mercy, but now God has given you his mercy.